One of the
big differences between Italians and Americans is on the idea of
wasting food. When I went to US I was hit by the great amount of food used on 4th July, pounds of spare ribs and coke with
almost no bread which, as we know, prevents to eat too much meat.
When I was a child, there were dinners in which my mum used to say "
This is a bread-necessary dinner", which meant that without eating bread we would feel hungry soon.
Much more than my parents - who were baby-boomer after all, as they grew up in the 50s and 60s, the years of the
Italian Miracle - my
nonni were the best example of 100% food usage. When I peel my apple or the cheese, I always remember my grandmother telling me to peel it thinner: "Otherwise, half of the food will remain on the skin, and will be thrown away". Even now, we use to
kiss a piece of bread before throw it away.
Since my family was composed by
fishermen, my nonne were great fish cookers, especially with
poor fish:
nonna Nannina is still making great sauces with
testoline or little monkfish tails, or even with so small and thin fishes that I hardly know their names in Italian!
Even in the 50s, a lot of Italians were
starving, and most of them didn't have two meals a day. This is one of the reasons why in Italy restaurants with
big portions are greatly appreciated by popular classes, even if they economically improved.
The quantity of food is often perceived in direct relation with quality: the more, the better. Moreover, the high-class restaurants, which in my opinion are now even overpriced, are most of the times object of fun by popular classes (popular for the origin, no matter the money).
That's why - I will always remember it - the
typical question when I call my
grandparents, especially in lunch or dinner time, is:
how are you? have you eaten?Not yet, I'm preparing - Not yet, I'm not very hungry, I was concerned about something.
Yes, but... eat first!Eat first: this is the first problem to solve for those who experienced the hunger.
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